Forgiveness: Through the Eyes of Our Deen

Usually my blog talks about the socio-political issues that have been plaguing our world, our country to be specific. But this time, I decide to talk about a topic, a virtue that goes beyond the borders. Something that we learned since we were two yet something which seems so foreign. Something that maybe reside in the deep corners of our heart yet something that finds it hard to come to our lips. Something that we all want for ourselves yet something that we hesitate when it comes to giving and something that we remember so dearly in our lessons yet something that lies forgotten. Something called Forgiveness.

If we talk about forgiveness, in general sense, it is something that is talked about everywhere, in every society, in every religion and especially in Islam. But when I look around, when I look at people of my faith, it gives me a great amount of displeasure to see people saying,

“But how can I forgive?

If I don’t lie, I’ve been one of those people and have said this multiple times during my life of 22 years. I don’t have a nice history with forgiveness myself so this is not coming from someone who has mastered it or someone who is lecturing. This is coming from someone who is like you, someone who has struggled.

But one fine day, I picked up my Quran and began surfing. Now, I have a habit of reading about specific topics in Quran like what does Allah say about this topic and all, So one fine day, in the cold artificial air of AC, that my father had just switched on, I began surfing , muting myself to the chaos downstairs because I wanted answers, I wanted to let go of the indifference that I had. What I found was so beautiful that I wanted to share with you all, but never had the courage to do so. But before we talk about it, I want to talk about forgiveness in respect to human and then we’d talk about it with respect to Allah. Good things make you wait, don’t they?


Allah has made our hearts very fragile and emotional, be it a man or a woman and it is impossible to not get hurt in this world. Many a times, people hurt us , intentionally or unintentionally but our heart doesn’t understand and is very quick to break. Then comes in a wave of anger and no one likes to have a broken heart that is scarred so to take power of the situation, we humans resort to one sentence we know the best,

I’ll never forgive him/her

And then, some of us go to the extent of harming that person or we definitely spend minutes thinking about it. What we don’t realize is, we are not mending our heart, we are breaking it more. We should stop and reflect, for Allah says in the Quran,

                                                                                                         وَلَمَن صَبَرَ وَغَفَرَ إِنَّ ذَٰلِكَ لَمِنْ عَزْمِ ٱلْأُمُورِ ٤٣

And whoever endures patiently and forgives—surely this is a resolve to aspire to.


Allah has asked us to forgive and we would be very ungrateful if we don’t do that. I know, it is very hard to. The clutches of iblees are real strong and the hurt is too much to let go, your heart gets dark every time you think about them or even if you don’t think, there’s always a big burden on your heart and it often makes you feel that if you forgive too, what will happen? We need to pause again and turn our page to Surah Ash-Shuraa, Verse 40,

وَجَزَٰٓؤُا۟ سَيِّئَةٍ سَيِّئَةٌ مِّثْلُهَا ۖ فَمَنْ عَفَا وَأَصْلَحَ فَأَجْرُهُۥ عَلَى ٱللَّهِ ۚ إِنَّهُۥ لَا يُحِبُّ ٱلظَّـٰلِمِينَ 

The reward of an evil deed is its equivalent. But whoever pardons and seeks reconciliation, then their reward is with Allah. He certainly does not like the wrongdoers.

Photo by Ayesha

So, Allah has not only taken care of it, He has also promised us rewards if we forgive. Forgiving doesn’t mean that now every thing is okay and everything goes back to normal, infact this is something that many of us confuse forgiving with, when Allah has said to keep away from people who bring out the worst in you. Allah has asked you to forgive not to go back and be hurt again.

As the Holy month of Ramadan is going on, a month that is synonymous with forgiveness, we all want our sins to be forgiven and we spend hours in ibaadat, in hope of finding forgiveness but we turn our heads away from the dark corners of our hearts, where we haven’t forgiven someone or the other. If we expect the same for us, why can’t we forgive someone too? As Allah says in Surah Noor, verse 22,

وَلَا يَأْتَلِ أُو۟لُوا۟ ٱلْفَضْلِ مِنكُمْ وَٱلسَّعَةِ أَن يُؤْتُوٓا۟ أُو۟لِى ٱلْقُرْبَىٰ وَٱلْمَسَـٰكِينَ وَٱلْمُهَـٰجِرِينَ فِى سَبِيلِ ٱللَّهِ ۖ وَلْيَعْفُوا۟ وَلْيَصْفَحُوٓا۟ ۗ أَلَا تُحِبُّونَ أَن يَغْفِرَ ٱللَّهُ لَكُمْ ۗ وَٱللَّهُ غَفُورٌۭ رَّحِيمٌ                                                           ٢٢

Do not let the people of virtue and affluence among you swear to suspend donations to their relatives, the needy, and the emigrants in the cause of Allah. Let them pardon and forgive. Do you not love to be forgiven by Allah? And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.



We all know Allah is Ar-Raheem, The All Merciful. Still we think we won’t be forgiven, still we hesitate in asking for forgiveness. One fine day, I was going through Sheikh Omer Suleiman’s lecture about forgiveness and I realized how true it was. We have been told wrong our whole lives, to err is to human. Allah didn’t create us so that we don’t sin. Allah created us so we repent. If we go over His conversation with Iblees, He repeatedly asserts that He would forgive us everytime we come to him as He says in Surah Al Ar’af, Verse 153,

وَٱلَّذِينَ عَمِلُوا۟ ٱلسَّيِّـَٔاتِ ثُمَّ تَابُوا۟ مِنۢ بَعْدِهَا وَءَامَنُوٓا۟ إِنَّ رَبَّكَ مِنۢ بَعْدِهَا لَغَفُورٌۭ رَّحِيمٌۭ                                                                 ١٥٣ 
But those who commit evil, then repent and become ˹true˺ believers, your Lord will certainly be All-Forgiving, Most-Merciful.


We need to approach this issue differently. Iblees’s work does not end with us committing sins, his actual work is that we don’t go back to Allah, because he knows that Allah is All-Merciful and He would surely forgive if we ever return. So if we, turn around and look back few seconds before we commit a sin, we would hear a whisper, whisper of Iblees, telling us that it is okay, that Allah would forgive and then when we do it, he tells us how can we stand before Allah after committing such a grievous sin and thus the guilt keeps us away. We should not loos hope in Allah’s mercy as He says in the Quran,

                    ۞ قُلْ يَـٰعِبَادِىَ ٱلَّذِينَ أَسْرَفُوا۟ عَلَىٰٓ أَنفُسِهِمْ لَا تَقْنَطُوا۟ مِن رَّحْمَةِ ٱللَّهِ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَغْفِرُ ٱلذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًا ۚ إِنَّهُۥ هُوَ ٱلْغَفُورُ ٱلرَّحِيمُ             ٥٣

Say, ˹O Prophet, that Allah says,˺ “O My servants who have exceeded the limits against their souls! Do not lose hope in Allah’s mercy, for Allah certainly forgives all sins.1 He is indeed the All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.


We must never think that our sins are too much to even stand infront of Allah. The only difference between not being forgiven and being forgiven is you not asking for it. The biggest sin that anyone can do is doubt Allah’s mercy for Allah says in the Quran,

إِلَّا مَن تَابَ وَءَامَنَ وَعَمِلَ عَمَلًۭا صَـٰلِحًۭا فَأُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ يُبَدِّلُ ٱللَّهُ سَيِّـَٔاتِهِمْ حَسَنَـٰتٍۢ ۗ وَكَانَ ٱللَّهُ غَفُورًۭا رَّحِيمًۭا                                                        ٧٠
As for those who repent, believe, and do good deeds, they are the ones whose evil deeds Allah will change into good deeds. For Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.


Imagine, not only Allah forgives you, but He also transforms your sins to good deeds. SubhanAllah. I think we need to approach Allah in a different way, as in love him and not be scared of Him. Do good deeds to make Him happy and not in fear of jahunnum.

I’d close this by saying,

I hope this has helped you somewhere in getting you close to Allah.

Don’t let someone else win the battle that is meant for you to win

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